The closeness of bodies is not it.

The closeness of minds — maybe.

The closeness of hearts — sure.

But what is it to really know someone?

In my mind,

and in my heart of hearts,

to know someone is to show up unassuming,

nonjudgemental.

Loving their ugly parts.

Trying not to correct them.

Loving them unconditionally.

Do not compare them.

Fight for them.

Fight with them when they aren’t loving themselves.

Just be.

Be there for them.